Kate Spicer says Sort Yourself Out

Kate Spicer says Sort Yourself Out

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Kate Spicer says Sort Yourself Out
Kate Spicer says Sort Yourself Out
Why we 'do it'. And why bad sex experiences can be an education.

Why we 'do it'. And why bad sex experiences can be an education.

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At 50ish years old, and 13 years into a grown up relationship it’s some time since I wrote any first person guffing about actually ‘doing it’ as we used to say in our teens - as in, have you ‘done it’ yet? How much I actually 'do it’ is not up for discussion because you can’t cannibalise your whole life and 13 years into a grown up relationship. Well…

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